โIf you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirsโฆ.โ - Rudyard Kipling, If
Sometimes it can be difficult to remain centred and balanced in times of stress or difficulty. If people or the environment are going crazy around us, we could possibly find ourselves begin to resonate with that energy if we are not fully centred within ourselves. This could potentially lead us unconsciously into a frenzied state, matching their vibration!
Perhaps you can think of examples where this may have happened to you before?
An instance where this may be familiar, is if our horse spooks or begins to get anxious about something, this could lead to something even more hair-raising if we are not careful๐ฅ
Remaining centred and balanced in our emotional state can enable our horse to entrain to our rhythm, and move through the challenge or obstacle.
โEntrainment - the process of making something have the same pattern or rhythm as something else.โ
In the Heart to Horse Connection Programme ๐๐, one of the many aspects we work on energetically is what I call the โEmotion Generatorโ - this is made up from parts of the brain which are involved in producing emotions.
In many people and horses I work on this is usually working in overdrive - sometimes excessively. Working to reduce it to a balanced state can bring about feelings of ease and calm, and enables us to be less overly reactive emotionally to situations, and therefore helps us remain in a more steady and calm state ๐ง๐ปโโ๏ธ
In fact, so far, I have only had one occasion where I observed it to be in โunder driveโ - and that was in my mare Eloa (in the video). It was quite obvious too, she was quite void of showing emotion - perhaps this was her way of coping (she was left to die locked in a barn at age 3), perhaps her emotions werenโt listened to, so she just stopped showing them - interesting to think about ๐ง - however she also had an extraordinary โstress resetโ button, bringing her back to calm if there was any sort of issue going on. She is now a lot more expressive, and I think she is still quite surprised sometimes when I listen to what she has to say!
So, what can you do right now to centre yourself?
๐ Breathe in for a count of 5, and out for a count of ten
๐ Try alternate nostril breathing (check YouTube for examples)
๐ Close your eyes, take several deeps breathes and imagine roots growing down into the ground
๐ Centring affirmations to say to yourself:
โI breathe in calm and breathe out peaceโ
โI can be calm in any circumstanceโ
โIโm grounded in kindness and compassionโ
If you have any other techniques youโd like to share post below! ๐
Have a peaceful day โจ
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